You can’t “sugarcoat” the truth.
But you can be “prepared”.
It is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment. Hebrews 9:27 Are you prepared to meet God at the final judgment?
You can escape the judgment, however, if you accept God’s free gift of salvation purchased by the sacrifice of His son, Jesus Christ, upon the cross as the payment for your sins – past, present and future.
For God so greatly loved and dearly prized the world that He [even] gave up His only begotten (unique) Son, so that whoever believes in (trusts in, clings to, relies on) Him shall not perish (come to destruction, be lost) but have eternal (everlasting) life.
For God did not send the Son into the world in order to judge (to reject, to condemn, to pass sentence on) the world, but that the world might find salvation and be made safe and sound through Him.